Another video update of me rambling on and on, about Monday which is hopefully the end of the drama. I also talk about my hopes for the future with Katelyn, our friends and our child. I also want to thank the many people who helped me out throughout this entire mess. I also wanted to apologize for cutting off most of my head, it makes me look like a baboon.
I would greatly appreciate any comments or words of support you may have over this weekend, my anxiety level is sky high. I know Katelyn and her family read aspieweb as well, so any comments of support you have for them would also be appreciated.
Also if I did not name you in the video, when thanking people I am sorry. I was running into the 10 minute youtube limit!
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I am really hoping you get all this sorted out. Not only did you get so many people (including me) worried about you, you’ve got a child on the way and I know from having to do a lot of the work with some of my younger siblings when they were babies that having a baby is a lot of work, especially in the first few days. That in addition to all this drama would not be very pretty.
Zach,
Nice to see you calm and collected, despite all the anxiety that you’re feeling. I hope things take a positive turn for all of you on Monday. I also hope you also keep a few personal goals for yourself that don’t involve Kate to help keep you strong. It will take some time to work through all that is happened and having something for yourself can help with any bumps in the road that arise. The drama level won’t go down to zero immediately and it will come back at times. Prepare yourself for these so that each time you are a little better at dealing with them constructively.
You’ve shown yourself to be both thoughtful, reflective, and caring. These attributes will be an asset to you moving forward.
Now if you two would have been patient this would have already been dealt with. You guys can’t have everything now with the court system – its not fast food after all.
Just don’t make a decision about the kid right away, and give each other plenty of space. Only hang out 2 times a week at most, and try double dates for accountability.