Comments on: The Baby Decision http://www.aspieweb.net/the-baby-decision/ The Aspergers And Autism Web Wed, 08 Feb 2012 03:29:54 +0000 hourly 1 http://wordpress.org/?v=3.3.1 By: Afraid http://www.aspieweb.net/the-baby-decision/#comment-17242 Afraid Sun, 24 Apr 2011 00:21:30 +0000 http://www.aspieweb.net/?p=1039#comment-17242 I tried to click the link and it says that the main server can't be found http://www.lifewithfas.com/the-big-baby-decision/ I'd love to learn more, Please redirect me if I can still read the Blog... I tried to click the link and it says that the main server can’t be found http://www.lifewithfas.com/the-big-baby-decision/
I’d love to learn more, Please redirect me if I can still read the Blog…

]]> By: Calli Arcale http://www.aspieweb.net/the-baby-decision/#comment-12743 Calli Arcale Tue, 15 Sep 2009 20:30:51 +0000 http://www.aspieweb.net/?p=1039#comment-12743 Congratulations! You're going to be a father. ;-) It's a truly wonderful thing. There's no way to really be prepared for how utterly it changes your life, but that's not something to be scared of. When you first hold your child in your hands and look into those big eyes, or see their tiny little fingers curled around your own finger.... You fall in love in a way very different from your relationship with your significant other. It doesn't replace that love. It adds to it. Just don't forget to make time for yourselves, and remember to keep some romance in your lives. ;-) There's absolutely nothing wrong with that at all. And kids are resilient. Make sure their needs are taken care of, but don't sweat the small stuff. They'll know what's important. ;-) Congratulations! You’re going to be a father. ;-) It’s a truly wonderful thing. There’s no way to really be prepared for how utterly it changes your life, but that’s not something to be scared of. When you first hold your child in your hands and look into those big eyes, or see their tiny little fingers curled around your own finger…. You fall in love in a way very different from your relationship with your significant other. It doesn’t replace that love. It adds to it. Just don’t forget to make time for yourselves, and remember to keep some romance in your lives. ;-) There’s absolutely nothing wrong with that at all. And kids are resilient. Make sure their needs are taken care of, but don’t sweat the small stuff. They’ll know what’s important. ;-)

]]> By: Aulë http://www.aspieweb.net/the-baby-decision/#comment-12738 Aulë Mon, 14 Sep 2009 15:35:51 +0000 http://www.aspieweb.net/?p=1039#comment-12738 Zach, Per your (and Katelyn's) instructions I have left my main comment on her blog. Congratulations to you both. Now, the hard work begins. Best, Aulë Zach,

Per your (and Katelyn’s) instructions I have left my main comment on her blog.

Congratulations to you both. Now, the hard work begins.

Best,

Aulë

]]> By: Zach http://www.aspieweb.net/the-baby-decision/#comment-12737 Zach Mon, 14 Sep 2009 05:19:51 +0000 http://www.aspieweb.net/?p=1039#comment-12737 Thanks for the great advise Galvin Thanks for the great advise Galvin

]]> By: Gavin Bollard http://www.aspieweb.net/the-baby-decision/#comment-12736 Gavin Bollard Mon, 14 Sep 2009 05:18:24 +0000 http://www.aspieweb.net/?p=1039#comment-12736 Well done Zach. The news is good. The road ahead is a difficult one - I won't kid you there. It's difficult but it's rewarding. Just note down in your diary a point about 18 months from now... Say... STOP. Look at your relationship. Leave the baby with someone and go spend some time together. You're going to need it then. Well done Zach.

The news is good.

The road ahead is a difficult one – I won’t kid you there. It’s difficult but it’s rewarding. Just note down in your diary a point about 18 months from now…

Say… STOP. Look at your relationship. Leave the baby with someone and go spend some time together.

You’re going to need it then.

]]> By: Adelaide http://www.aspieweb.net/the-baby-decision/#comment-12735 Adelaide Mon, 14 Sep 2009 02:28:57 +0000 http://www.aspieweb.net/?p=1039#comment-12735 Well, I read Katelyn's blog first and commented on there. It's good that you listened to Katelyn and her feelings. Yes, she probably would know best about how it might feel to be adopted. It's all been dramatic and tumutulous the last few months. Well, I read Katelyn’s blog first and commented on there.

It’s good that you listened to Katelyn and her feelings. Yes, she probably would know best about how it might feel to be adopted.

It’s all been dramatic and tumutulous the last few months.

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