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		<title>By: Zach</title>
		<link>http://www.aspieweb.net/pile-of-mush/#comment-12936</link>
		<dc:creator>Zach</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Sat, 03 Oct 2009 16:25:46 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Actually I&#039;m not single.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Actually I&#8217;m not single.</p>
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		<title>By: John Best</title>
		<link>http://www.aspieweb.net/pile-of-mush/#comment-12933</link>
		<dc:creator>John Best</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Sat, 03 Oct 2009 13:20:13 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Zach,  Whether you&#039;re NT or Aspie, you&#039;re a single man.   Enjoy what&#039;s left of your youth while you can.  Stop whining on the internet and go out and enjoy yourself.
If you don&#039;t have enough money to pay your rent, or whatever, then you have nothing to lose by risking what you do have on some horses.  I once took the last $50 I had to my name and turned it into $900 at the track.  Then I doubled it a few times and went back into gambling full time.  You can&#039;t ever win if you don&#039;t take some risks.  And, it&#039;s fun.
I wouldn&#039;t normally offer to tell anyone from Neurodiversity how to make easy money but you&#039;re in a bind so I&#039;m offering you information that I&#039;ve gained from many years of experience.  If you want to take a risk, email me.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Zach,  Whether you&#8217;re NT or Aspie, you&#8217;re a single man.   Enjoy what&#8217;s left of your youth while you can.  Stop whining on the internet and go out and enjoy yourself.<br />
If you don&#8217;t have enough money to pay your rent, or whatever, then you have nothing to lose by risking what you do have on some horses.  I once took the last $50 I had to my name and turned it into $900 at the track.  Then I doubled it a few times and went back into gambling full time.  You can&#8217;t ever win if you don&#8217;t take some risks.  And, it&#8217;s fun.<br />
I wouldn&#8217;t normally offer to tell anyone from Neurodiversity how to make easy money but you&#8217;re in a bind so I&#8217;m offering you information that I&#8217;ve gained from many years of experience.  If you want to take a risk, email me.</p>
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		<title>By: Zach</title>
		<link>http://www.aspieweb.net/pile-of-mush/#comment-12930</link>
		<dc:creator>Zach</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Sat, 03 Oct 2009 05:30:00 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>I would love to go to sleep right now, but I&#039;m thinking a lot about Katelyn right now.

I&#039;m trying to organize stuff in my new apartment to get my mind off things.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>I would love to go to sleep right now, but I&#8217;m thinking a lot about Katelyn right now.</p>
<p>I&#8217;m trying to organize stuff in my new apartment to get my mind off things.</p>
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		<title>By: Aulë</title>
		<link>http://www.aspieweb.net/pile-of-mush/#comment-12929</link>
		<dc:creator>Aulë</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Sat, 03 Oct 2009 05:27:07 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Zach,

A wise idea.  And its 1:24 AM your time, go get some sleep!  Tomorrow is another day.

Aulë</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Zach,</p>
<p>A wise idea.  And its 1:24 AM your time, go get some sleep!  Tomorrow is another day.</p>
<p>Aulë</p>
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		<title>By: Zach</title>
		<link>http://www.aspieweb.net/pile-of-mush/#comment-12928</link>
		<dc:creator>Zach</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Sat, 03 Oct 2009 05:24:45 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Aule, 

I welcome people stating their opinions.  Even if I disagree with their opinion I welcome it.

As far as ACLU, congress, or local news - right now I want to see how things settle after Kate and I get better before more drama then necessary is started.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Aule, </p>
<p>I welcome people stating their opinions.  Even if I disagree with their opinion I welcome it.</p>
<p>As far as ACLU, congress, or local news &#8211; right now I want to see how things settle after Kate and I get better before more drama then necessary is started.</p>
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		<title>By: Aulë</title>
		<link>http://www.aspieweb.net/pile-of-mush/#comment-12927</link>
		<dc:creator>Aulë</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Sat, 03 Oct 2009 05:21:18 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Zach,

Then you need to change your posting rules.  This is your website, after all.  People who in your opinion, and yours alone, who waste your time and energy and bandwitdh are violating your personal boundaries.

One of the things you need to realize, because I am an autistic of decades more experience than yourself, is that autistics are often selected as targets for bullying and teasing by NTs because autistics seem easier in comparison to get any form of response from.

This is because autistics seem obligated to give all comers an equal share of personal attention.    My first discovery toward appearing more like an NT was simply to decide that there were very few people who were actually worth paying attention to.

Now, if you feel that I am not, then that&#039;s wonderful.   It&#039;s your choice, and you have the freedom to exercise it.   I don&#039;t have the right to live your life for you, and frankly I don&#039;t want to.   

But you seem to be justly suffering a great deal from some highly unwarranted discrimination from all manner of people and agencies who are trying to interfere with one of the most intimate relationships possible between human beings, starting a family, and I consider what&#039;s happening to you and Kate and possibly this baby to be utterly reprehensible and totally horrible.   It deserves reporting to places like ACLU, or even to the local news, or even a congressman.

But that&#039;s my two cents for this week.

I&#039;ll check on you and see how you are doing, next week.

We still remember,

Aulë</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Zach,</p>
<p>Then you need to change your posting rules.  This is your website, after all.  People who in your opinion, and yours alone, who waste your time and energy and bandwitdh are violating your personal boundaries.</p>
<p>One of the things you need to realize, because I am an autistic of decades more experience than yourself, is that autistics are often selected as targets for bullying and teasing by NTs because autistics seem easier in comparison to get any form of response from.</p>
<p>This is because autistics seem obligated to give all comers an equal share of personal attention.    My first discovery toward appearing more like an NT was simply to decide that there were very few people who were actually worth paying attention to.</p>
<p>Now, if you feel that I am not, then that&#8217;s wonderful.   It&#8217;s your choice, and you have the freedom to exercise it.   I don&#8217;t have the right to live your life for you, and frankly I don&#8217;t want to.   </p>
<p>But you seem to be justly suffering a great deal from some highly unwarranted discrimination from all manner of people and agencies who are trying to interfere with one of the most intimate relationships possible between human beings, starting a family, and I consider what&#8217;s happening to you and Kate and possibly this baby to be utterly reprehensible and totally horrible.   It deserves reporting to places like ACLU, or even to the local news, or even a congressman.</p>
<p>But that&#8217;s my two cents for this week.</p>
<p>I&#8217;ll check on you and see how you are doing, next week.</p>
<p>We still remember,</p>
<p>Aulë</p>
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		<title>By: Adelene</title>
		<link>http://www.aspieweb.net/pile-of-mush/#comment-12926</link>
		<dc:creator>Adelene</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Sat, 03 Oct 2009 05:17:56 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Quite a bit past borderline, I&#039;d say. :P</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Quite a bit past borderline, I&#8217;d say. <img src='http://www.aspieweb.net/wp-includes/images/smilies/icon_razz.gif' alt=':P' class='wp-smiley' /> </p>
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		<title>By: Zach</title>
		<link>http://www.aspieweb.net/pile-of-mush/#comment-12925</link>
		<dc:creator>Zach</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Sat, 03 Oct 2009 05:06:21 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>I try not to censor comments unless they violate posting rules.</description>
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		<title>By: Aulë</title>
		<link>http://www.aspieweb.net/pile-of-mush/#comment-12924</link>
		<dc:creator>Aulë</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Sat, 03 Oct 2009 05:02:44 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Zach,

There seems to be a lot of hate going on against both you and Kate from more or less normal (NT) people just because of who you are.    It is just bullying, after all, because NT people like to abuse all manner of living things just in order to deal with the rage they build up by being bullied by NT&#039;s higher up the food chain.

And John Best is one of those.  Why not just ignore his comments and not post them.   They seem calculated to get a rise out of you just for his own entertainment.

Aulë</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Zach,</p>
<p>There seems to be a lot of hate going on against both you and Kate from more or less normal (NT) people just because of who you are.    It is just bullying, after all, because NT people like to abuse all manner of living things just in order to deal with the rage they build up by being bullied by NT&#8217;s higher up the food chain.</p>
<p>And John Best is one of those.  Why not just ignore his comments and not post them.   They seem calculated to get a rise out of you just for his own entertainment.</p>
<p>Aulë</p>
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		<title>By: Zach</title>
		<link>http://www.aspieweb.net/pile-of-mush/#comment-12923</link>
		<dc:creator>Zach</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Sat, 03 Oct 2009 04:30:02 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>John, its an acceptable things to cry.

Also, I don&#039;t drink or gamble, thats a personal choice.

As far as letting the woman worry about the kid, thats a pretty stupid comment - its not just her job, its mine as well.

Your comment was pretty insensitive and borderline rude.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>John, its an acceptable things to cry.</p>
<p>Also, I don&#8217;t drink or gamble, thats a personal choice.</p>
<p>As far as letting the woman worry about the kid, thats a pretty stupid comment &#8211; its not just her job, its mine as well.</p>
<p>Your comment was pretty insensitive and borderline rude.</p>
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