As many of you know Kate’s guardian has forced a breakup between Katelyn and I. Katelyn is pregnant with our child and the last word I had from a mutual friend is the guardian is going to force us to put the child up for adoption according to Kate. She told a friend this just before she left the hospital.Just after she left the hospital my case manager told me that she heard from Kate’s case manager that I am no longer to have any form of contact with Kate. To put icing on the cake, me and Kate’s mother were actually talking and working through things and her guardian ordered that Kate’s mother no longer have any contact with me either. To me it seems pretty obvious that were being forced to breakup. With the word I got through a mutual friend I’m devastated. The only thing thats keeping me going right now is the fact I have my dog back.
I also had to fight with people I really called close friends to get my dog back. They took my dog from me last time I was in the hospital and refused to give him back after I watched them to watch my dog. These close friends were pastors at my church, so now on top of melting down at church because of all this going on I had to basically threaten to have them charged with larceny if they did not return Lucky. So I don’t feel safe at church anymore – which used to be my favorite safe place to be.
My half-brother is having surgery right now on his face, he was assaulted quite severely a few weeks ago and has several broken bones in his face. My half brother is the only person in my immediate family I really consider family so I have to deal with that as well.
On top of this I got a message from who I believe is Kates guardian, but it was very broken. All I could make it was Kate’s doing fine and something about CMH worker and do for you. I listen to the message over and over hoping one time it will just work properly. I tried calling back the guardian and the case manager but they refuse to return my calls.
At the recommendation of a friend I went on a date yesterday. They thought it would help me move on from Kate. The problem is, I love Kate. Kate also loves me. I feel like I’m cheating on her by seeing other people. I can’t love anyone else, when I know she loves me as well. I ended up just crying and leaving, making an ass of myself. I’m so hurt right now. All I do is cry, drink mountain dew and cry some more. I’m worried about making it through the weekend, as the emotional pain is taking a toll on me.
I miss you Kate. I will never forget you. You will always be the one I love.
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I think you should wait another week and see what happens. If nothing happens then you should take away Kates parental rights with court action, as she does not get to decide what happens right now.
Remember just because you take away her parental rights, she can still be a mother and help raise the child. It just stop the guardian from making choices for her.
I concur with Anna. If there is no way that Kate can get away from this guardian, it might be the only way. You can request even that it be only temporary, till Kate gains guardianship of herself. There is something I have been curious. I hope this is not to straight forward, but….why is Kate not her own guardian? Did something happen, or did her parent become her full guardian when she came of age because of her mental illness?
Kate made some very horrendous allegations about me after she got pregnant and her mother petitioned her from guardianship because “she just got out of a relationship from a very abusive man, and she needed to be kept away from me.” Kate has sense recanted the allegations and they were proven false.
Her mother was originally Kates full guardian, but it was found that her mother was abusive twords Kate and treated her like a child all the time. She also was attempting to use the guardianship to force Kate to lie and say the allegations were true, which lead to me picking up Kate and taking her to the police in violation of my bond. The court determined this was harmful for Kate and put her in an AFC and appointed an independent guardian, and because I violated the bond im a horrible person apparently.
It’s all a bunch of insanity is what it is! It looks to me as though her mom took advantage of the situac tion to get guardianship and that ended up in the end not only backfiring in her face, but in everyone elses and created Hell! I am sorry. I wish I could do somethin gto help. Is there no mutual friend in which you could send messages to her at all?