So tomorrow we go off to court about some of Kate’s allegations, and I am so well prepared – but not enjoying the fact that I will be wearing a tie.The Preparations Are Finished.
I have written testimony from four people, three of which have written detailed eye witness testimony regarding Kates actions. I am picking up statements from one more witness tonight.
Allegation: I Held Her Prisoner
Kate claims that I held her prisoner, that allegation is false. Three different people have written testimony stating that I brought her to softball games to allow her to talk to girlfriends alone, that I took her to girlfriends houses to hang out, dropped her off at parks to walk dogs with girls and even allowed slumber parties at my apartment for Kate and a girlfriend. One person even states that I took Kate to school during the week where she had plenty of alone time.
Allegation: I would not let her talk on the phone without permission
A lot of people say otherwise, and these three people say that Kate called them many times for advise and to talk to someone during our disagreements. One person even wrote that I often pushed her to contact her mother daily as she was hurting.
Allegation: That I manipulated Kate
The three people that have written state that Kate was never manipulated by me, and when we had a disagreement I would often tell her to take it God and seek the counsel of others (which I did as well.) I have one person who states the only person who ever saw Kate being manipulated was by her mother. Two people write that I often pushed Kate to do what she wanted in life, and encouraged her to grow by taking her to school and going on the back roads driving my car.
Allegation: I tied down and raped Kate
The problem with this allegation is Kate asked for it, and talked to other people about how to bring it up to me beforehand and one person writes about it. Afterwords she even talked to her brother about it (or so she told me). I have not brought her brother into this yet as family strife sucks – but plan to subpoena him if it goes to trial.
Allegation: I was forcing her to have sex with others
Again, another problem with this lie. The girl who Kate was going to hook up with says a lot about how Kate was looking forward to hooking up, how she initiated intimate conversations over the phone on two occasions detailing her fantasies of dealing with each other. This person also goes into great detail on how Kate was always bi-sexual but afraid to say it because her father hates gay people and they already have to hide it about one family member.
Allegation: Assualt
I have four people stating that I in now way would ever assault Kate. I have a person who knows me for three years state that I often get overwhelmed because of my apsergers – but never have become physically violent or assaultive. Furthermore I have one person that writes that Kate bit me on one occasion when I was asleep leaving a mark.
Kates a Liar
3 of the people write claiming that Kate is a habitual liar, and does so with conviction. They have stated that they don’t believe anything Kate says, and she often lies out of need to please whoever is in the room with her.
I’m very overwhelmed
I’m very overwhelmed by this entire mess, and I can’t wait to get it behind me so I can take care of my child. What are some things that people recommend I do to help me cope with the overwhelming parts of the situation? What are some things that people recommend so that Aspergers is not used to make me look like a violent person in court?
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