Here’s some advise. When she comes to you and complains about her day, she isn’t looking for you to solve her problems, just someone that will listen and support her. Many men make the mistake of thinking that women want us to solve any little complaint they have. In my experience, this isn’t true. They are more likely wanting someone to just listen to them without any judgement.

Women like to talk. They are generally much more social than we are. Women don’t necessarily like someone that has a lot of strong opinions. There are exceptions, like my wife.

Be yourself, don’t try to be someone she wants you to be. She needs to see you for you because you can only be someone else for a short period of time.

Remain attached but at the same time keep your independence. Don’t become a lap dog, which is an easy thing to do, especially if its a love at first sight kind of thing and young love. If you find your moods are dependent on the mood of your partner, then this is when you need to step back. The emotional roller coaster is very difficult I think for those of us on the spectrum.

I’ll think of some other things and post later.